Listen...

Sometimes, I should have listen to Hubby for advice or else sometimes the ending might be ugly. Yesterday, Hubby asked me to call uncle 3 to ask him if he wants to order the Dining table & mattress but lazy me didn't do what he advices me. So today, Uncle 3 called me & sounded angry that I didn't call them. My Sunday morning started out not so good, nevertheless I have did some service recovery. I ordered the dining table & the mattress to be delivered on 20.1.16, just in time before CNY. Of cos, I also ordered my TV 📺 finally & they will deliver on 10.1.16. Bonus, almost gone after fixing the window for the whole flat. Sianz. .. now have to work hard for the next 6months before the next bonus can say "Hi" to me.

Hubby also wasn't too happy with me cos I many mafan, ask him to pick up mom for lunch. I am thankful that he could do what I ask but I dare ask for too much. So after he send us back, I went back to BKP to get some groceries then take taxi home.

Friday, Saturday & Sunday is coming to an end so quickly. The "Emo-Me" came back to disturb me. I just have to endure & work for the next 4 weeks & then I am going for 1 week leave, away from work.

Sweet dreams to me, rest well & work diligently for the next 6 days.

Hubby on 2 weeks leave away from me. Take care.

Happy New Year!

Hi 1.1.2016, welcome!

Today, we went to Lido to watch "Star Wars".

Lunch- Pho Pork ball for me & beef combination for LC.

Dinner- indecisive, end up we bought 4fingers.

PH just gone without realising!

Goodbye 2015

31.12.2015 is ending in less than 10mins prior my post. Goodbye 2015. I have not reflected myself,  the good(s), the bad(s) that happened to me in 2015. Update this post later.....Thank you, my dear hubby, dearest mom, friends & enemies.

Sending 2015 off soon..... AND
Welcoming 2016 in less than 8mins while I was typing my post in Punggol. What to expect in 2016? Hmm... update later bah!

My blog post for 2015..... bye bye...

Kiddos

Bel sms today saying that she is going crazy because she is with her 2 boys 24/7 since she is on leave & they have no school. Her kids or maybe all kids are full of energy, even running at the playground for 2hrs, they r still not tired when their parents are half-dead! My reply to her was enjoy bonding with the kids while she can cos in future, they wouldn't want to play with their parents. I can easily say this to her cos I do not have a chance to "enjoy" what she is going through. I told her LC is blessed to be alone 24/7 at home. Without a kid or me disturbing him, he is a blessed guy.

My conclusions are as follows:-
1. Having a kid is never easy
2. Not everyone is entitle to a kid
3. Dad & Mom is important to have a kid
4. Willing to sacrifice
5. Understand that u may not have time for ur own stuffs
6. Money is a must have
7. Time is what u needed the most
8. Treasure the bonding before they grow up

What else to add? Nah! Don't bother cos .....

Benefits of no kids are as follows:-
1. No arguments
2. No responsibilities
3. No obligations
4. No headache/ heartache
5. No worries
6. No additional financial situation

What else to add? Nah! Why bother?!

Cons of no kids are as follows:-
1. Three gu six po kpo enquires
2. Curious kpo likes to pop that Qn when they r bored.
3. Concerned ppl worries about me
4. No chance to experience as a Mom. Well, that easy to solve, get a dog & I am a mom. The only thing is the dog can't call me Mom in English or Mandarin. That's not a problem too cos I have 2 godson who calls me Godma, so still someone call me "God-Ma" temporary cos they still young.

Nevertheless, we r human beings for sure cos we r never contented. When we have it, we complain for having it. And when we don't have it, we complain for not having it.

For my loyalty blog reader, it's just a random thought & blog. Please do not take it seriously.

What if?

What if time is running out for me?

Watched "Ip Man" show with hubby ytd night. I love the movie especially Ip Man & his wife love story, even thought eventually she died of cancer.

Person views of Ip man & points learned. Ip man is a responsible man who loves his family & kung-fu. His wife is supporting towards him & stand by him no matter what happens. When Ip man is focus with a task, he overlooked his wife until his wife slapped him & told him that something bad happens to her. The Dr diagnosed her to have late stage stomach cancer & the cancer cells is spreading fast. Her lifespan is only 6 months after confirming the diagnosis. It's so devastating for him & his wife. He spend the rest of the 6 months with his wife, accompany her for check-up & seek alternative medicine. He made effort to learn dancing cos his wife loved dancing because previously he did not turn up at the dancing class as he need to keep the school safe from ruffians. His wife is upset then. As his wife health condition deteriorates, he endured & pull himself together. He even forgo his chance to prove his kung-fu is authentic. However, his wife knows Ip man's passion towards kung-fu & then she secretly helped him to set up the challenge against the person who challenged him. He won. She requested him to take 📷 photos with her to keep the memories. So sweet.

What if time is running out for me, what do I want to do? Probably something similar to Ip man's wife, spend the last 6 months of time with my hubby & mom. Take photos 📷. Arrange my funeral matters so that everything is take care of. I do not wish to have too many visitors because I will be too tired to speak to so many people & let them c my pathetic looks. Oh, not forgetting to accomplish my wishes before I mati.

One fine day, everyone of us would have to leave this world. Be forgiving whenever we can, do not harm others if possible & loved who we are.

Hohoho... Merry Christmas 🎄

When Christmas comes, it mean new year is approaching

Year 2015 is ending soon & let's welcome 2016.

Time is running out for me. Why? Many things can't be done when u r getting old. Oh well, I believe it's all predestined. Be contented with what u have NOW & treasure it while u have time.

How did I spent my Christmas Eve, day & post?

24th December 2015- No official announcement until we ate FOC pizza, yes! Half day work & then I went back. Picked up by LC to meet MD & Amilyn for Haidilao steamboat dinner. I was a bit worried if I will like it but surprisingly I love it. Thank you, Amilyn for introducing "tomato 🍅 soup base" & thank you hubby for choosing all time favorite "Chicken 🍗 soup base". I enjoyed myself even though I was not able to participate in the conversation actively because I am a boring person. Thank you, hubby for trying to bring me to meet ur friends for dinner. Thank you, MD & Amilyn for allowing & accepting me to join u all for dinner. They even invited us to visit their sweet staycation room at Park Hotel. It's nice & cosy. They even got a Sponsored parking coupon for us.

Home sweet home 🏡  & it's pressies time!
I got a IPad mini 4 from hubby- superb cos my previous iPad is so heavy! Hehehe. .. I am loving it!

Not forgetting to mention all other Christmas 🎄 pressies given by my friends & colleagues. Just in case my memories storage fails, I shall list them down. Numbering at random..

1. Pigsy- Craftholic soft toy & VS spray
2. Anne- Limited edition perfume & water bottle
3. Bel- Groupon & Mac Long Eyewear
4. Marilyn- My fave Gardener handcream
5. May Ling- Chocolate
6. Sister Teo- Cookies
7. MD & Amilyn- cookies
8. Aidila- cupcake
9. Ting- precious moment A4 file
10. Venassa- "I" figurine
11. Koh- handcream
12. Alice- pouch
13. Aileen- a dress 👗
14. RZ- water bottle
15. Trip Buddies gift exchange- pending

Dear all, thank you for brightening me up with so many gifts. I loved them all!

Every year I tell myself I must prepare the gifts early but I never do it. Try again next year!

25 December 2015- Staycation in Marriott Hotel with hubby! Soo nice, quality time spent! Nice brunch with MD & Amilyn at Far East Plaza Chicken rice & dessert at Scott's. Super full but super happy. Booked "Ip Man's" movie at 9.40pm. Shopping at my favorite supermarket & food stuffs grabbed. Loved Jordan's corn bread & it's so delicious when eat with apple ham & double cheese! Not forgetting the nice makan from 7-8.30pm at Marriot L2. After movie, we have a short walk at orchard. Loved the fact, so late out together! Watched a silliest movie in hotel before we fall asleep.

26 December 2015- my worse nightmare early in the morning: hubby iPhone 6s CMI. Mr Blackie Lim appeared without notice. Hahaha. .. luckily managed to onz it back. Yup... staycation ended faster than I expected. And I am back to Isetan's supermarket to spend $. I was sent back to BKP. Feeling sick & I sleep sleep. Slightly better after 1 dose of panadol & sleep.

Sianz. .. super old TV 📺 spilt permanently. Going to burn my pocket money 💵 again...

Good night dear all... I am going to sleep. What else did I missed out in my blog for today?

What happens to my family?

Lately, my favourite Korean drama is "What happens to my family".
It's a warm comedy cum family Korean drama that make me laugh & cry at the same time. The actors did really well in acting their roles! Thumbs up! "Hyojin" who is a innocent aka brainless simple gal who has no talents at all but she can drive u nuts. I feel I am like her, the only difference is I am not a rich family daughter. Lol... 😂 I loved this drama, I am coming home everyday to watch it! I wish it has a happy ending. It is because the Dad in the drama files a lawsuit against his 3 children in order to spend his limited quality time with them. He has advanced stage stomach cancer but he doesn't want to let his 3 children know. His terms & conditions to dropped this lawsuit is that his 3 children will need to fulfill the requests that he raised. And he planned a schedule on what he want to do during his last 3-6 months of life with his children & family. It includes having dinner with his 3 children on every Saturday. His eldest son & daughter-in-law need to move back to his place. His daughter will need to go for match-made sessions & get married. His youngest son need to get a proper job & give him allowance every month. Eventually,  his 3 children found out the truth & it's very heartbreaking for him & his children. When someone ask his youngest son- what is/are your Dad's hobbies or likes? He can't answer. I also do not know what is my late Dad's hobbies or like also. Beside knowing his like to gamble, I know nuts about his other hobbies or likes. If people were to ask me what's your husband's hobbies or likes? I can only say, it will be playing computer games, staying at home, play soccer and work. Beside all this, my reply would be I don't know.

I concluded this drama's moral of the story is simple- treasure what you have, spend time with them whenever you can; no matter how short. It's the quality & not quantity. Say what you want to say before your time runs out, but please say more nice than harsh things. Family 👪 ties is very important but often ignore or no time to maintain it due to other commitments such as work. Not everyone can maintain or have good family relationship. I hope to have a normal family 👪, living together, loving each other & be healthy.

I LOVE you Mom, no matter how naughty u are & disturb me when I sleep lime a PIG 🐷.  I love you Husband,  no matter how busy you are & "hates" me for disturbing you!

Well, I need to sleep. Wish me sweet dreams!