Hi mouth 👄 & eyes 👀

人言可畏 means "the tongue is not steel, yet it cuts".
病从口入, 禍从口出 means "illness enters by the mouth, trouble comes out by the mouth (idiom). A loose tongue may cause a lot of trouble". See how powerful our mouth can be, u can live happily ever after if u use it correctly. But, u can also die instantly or slowly or gradually or miserably if u use wrongly.
眼见为实 means "Seeing is believing". Well, correction to this statement at Monkey 🙈 view- seeing doesn't mean u need to believe it because the truth can be hidden. People may suffer in silence if u believe "seeing is believing". People who acts well can convince people who has short or long- sighted. Hence, in a relationship, I believe mutual trust and speaking the truth is very important.

珍惜眼前人 means "Cherish the present one". That's right, when u lost them permanently, u can't do anything for them til we meet again in the world.

对别人仁慈就是对自己残忍 means "To others of their own kind is cruel".  Most of the time, my angel 😇 🙈 tell me to be kind to others but at times my 😈 🙈 tell me to other of their own kind is cruel then I will be evil towards the person who is bad also.

I am a person who doesn't have any talent or capabilities living in my own world most of the time. I only worry about my mom & brother because they are my only family members. My husband- no need to worry because he don't want to trouble me with his troubles most of the time & he is a capable person. I don't have much friends who confides in me with their problems. Work- sometimes gives me headache cos I know my limits but I believe I shall take 1 step at a time then I can overcome the hurdle.

Dearest 幸福, don't forget about me.

NR9811

In 1998, we met for the 1st time in NYP, we enrolled ourselves in DIN. After 3yrs, we made it to the "N" world. Almost 18 years of friendship, fond memories flowing into my mind when I meet them.

After so many years, we met again as old friends and our life's changes are different. WF + ZG = 4 (additional 2 boys in their life). NN + hubby = 3 (a beautiful daughter Millie in their wonderful life).
IV + VC = 2.

Each and everyone has our own unique characters. Each kid has their way to demand things they need and want. As a outsider, we can't comment too much, it is because they are not your kids and their parents did not say thing. We won't understand their situation as we are not in their shoes. Disciplining ourselves already requires a lot effort- our temptations towards yummiest sinful food or shopping thoughts or battle against the evil spirit at work or being happy etc...

Actually, I already know the fact- having a baby is never easy cos u need to be ready- physically & emotionally, ur financial must be stable and willing to sacrifice. Husband is always right, it's probably more sensible to have a dog than a kid cos of the current situation. Well, I am more certain now and decided that we should have black or golden dog or cat to be part of our baby family.

Now, I only wish I could have adequate good sleep to prepare myself for everyday brand new challenges.